Hello, I’m Sergio. I am an Integrative Therapist and Intimacy Coach, as well as a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in training.

It can be a little difficult to describe my exact way of working. This is because my primary training was in integrative therapy—an approach that brings together a number of therapeutic theories. The advantage of this is the flexibility it gives me to adapt to the individual in front of me.

Some clients may need a space to process emotional content, others may want a sounding board to think through events; structured sessions are ideal for some, whilst others prefer a more free-flowing, self-led approach. This can all change as our sessions progress, and being an integrative therapist means I can adapt to the natural changes that inevitably arise during our work.

That being said, I do have some core ways of working that I have found to be consistently effective: I use IFS for processing deep memories and for somatic work. CBT works well for cognitive restructuring and for getting some practical next steps. Attachment theory and working relationally (meaning I'm interested in what comes up between us) have also been very effective in creating insight and change.

My specialism as a psychosexual therapist (in training) gives me a specific understanding for issues related to sex, intimacy, and relationships. I take this work very seriously, as I believe the more we understand the way we show up in relationships and navigate intimacy, the more we can learn how to truly connect. Our bodies are always trying to tell us things, often long before an issue moves into ‘dysfunction’. Learning the language of our bodies—the stories they remember and the ideas they hold—can be the most enriching work we can do.

In my role as an intimacy coach, we work together to explore and embrace your unique erotic template. Together, we create a space where you can bring your desires, curiosities, and challenges to the table. I guide you in navigating these areas with confidence and help you discover creative ways to deepen connection, intimacy, and pleasure. From communication tools to playful, imaginative games, my approach is designed to spark curiosity and encourage growth in your sexual and relational life.

I invite you to explore my website to learn more about my services and how I can assist you on your journey.

Qualifications

Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology
Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy (In Training) 

The Awareness Centre
Diploma in Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy

Regent’s University
Certificate in Counselling and Psychotherapy

Areas I am passionate about

  • Drawing from my own lived experience of depression, I hold the work of addressing depression and suicidal ideation with incredible importance and deep care. These struggles profoundly shape a person’s life, and I am committed to providing a deeply supportive, compassionate, and non-judgmental space to explore and understand their roots.

    My ultimate goal is to develop hope and empower clients to envision and create a life that feels worth living.

  • I like to help clients explore and understand core aspects of their self-concept, including:

    • Understand cultural identity challenges

    • Exploring gender identity

    • Understanding sexual identity

    • Resolving personal identity conflicts

    • Examining the impact of past experiences and societal pressures

  • I like to work with clients to understand what makes them feel anxious and find ways to live more peacefully. The goal is to discover what helps you feel calmer and more confident. This might include looking at your thought patterns in a new light, learning simple exercises to stay present, or using breathing techniques to find relief when you feel overwhelmed.

  • Intrusive thoughts can be frightening and debilitating. In my experience, I have come to understand them as messengers trying to tell us something about our circumstances. Although treatment will include exposure, compassion and acceptance, understanding the conditions that create them will be beneficial too.

  • We work together to understand the roots of your anger and develop healthier ways to express and manage such feelings. We can work on identifying triggers, improving emotional regulation, and developing effective communication skills.

  • I support clients through the grieving process, helping them to navigate their emotions and find ways to cope with the loss of a loved one. This involves providing a compassionate space for clients to express their feelings and explore the impact of their loss on their lives.

  • I am dedicated to supporting individuals who identify as neurodivergent. Whether dealing with ADHD, autism spectrum conditions, dyslexia, or other neurodivergent traits, my practice strives to provide a thoughtful and accommodating environment.

  • With over 12 years of teaching experience, I understand the challenges educators face. In my therapy sessions, I offer a supportive space for teachers dealing with burnout, stress, classroom demands, administrative pressures, or struggles with work-life balance.

    Using my background in education, I offer a relatable experience from a person who has been through it before.

  • Whilst I am currently only a student undertaking training, I have already worked with many individuals with concerns around low desire, intimacy difficulties, sexual function challenges, mismatched libidos, exploring sexual identity, and navigating sexual communication issues.

    This work is at the heart of what I am interested in.

  • I have worked with individuals who have been on either side of infidelity and have seen how confusing and debilitating such an experience can be.

    My practice offers a space for both those who have experienced infidelity and those who have been unfaithful, including:

    • Navigating the aftermath of betrayal for both parties

    • Rebuilding trust and repairing communication

    • Exploring underlying factors that contributed to the infidelity

    • Processing emotions such as guilt, anger, shame, or grief

    • Clarifying needs, boundaries, and steps for moving forward

  • A large part of my work has been working with clients who have questions or issues related to gender identity and sexual orientation, including:

    • Navigating the journey of coming out

    • Coping with discrimination

    • Exploring gender transition

    • Discussing aspects of sexual health

    • Addressing relationship dynamics

  • As one of my core focuses, I provide an inclusive and non-judgmental space for clients to explore aspects of kink and BDSM. This could look like:

    • Navigating consent, communication, and safety

    • Exploring dom/sub dynamics and lifestyles

    • Addressing kink shame and stigma

    • Understanding and expressing sexual identities

    • Building confidence in kink practices

    I have also appeared on podcasts discussing kink, findom, kink shame, and dom/sub dynamics, bringing informed and open perspectives to these topics.

  • Through my own experience as a sex worker, I bring an experienced perspective to individuals and the ones surrounding them.

    Some areas of focus can be:

    • Navigating stigma

    • Managing boundaries

    • Dealing with occupational stress

    • Seeking support for personal relationships

    • Navigating professional relationships

  • I believe in the development of masculinity and Rites of Passage to do as such. In the therapy room, I like to focus on the unique mental health challenges that men face in today’s world, including:

    • Struggling with societal expectations

    • Feeling disconnected from masculine energy

    • Addressing the absence of meaningful rites of passage

    • Seeking guidance and role models for masculine development

    • Exploring and cultivating a strong sense of identity and purpose

  • As an advocate and therapist specialising in LGBTQ+ issues, I provide support for:

    • Navigating the complexities of coming out

    • Managing relationships within personal and social contexts

    • Coping with discrimination and societal challenges

    • Exploring and affirming identity

    • Building resilience and fostering self-acceptance

  • Relationships can be difficult to navigate and can change according to the people we connect with. I like to help clients by offering support in a number of ways, including:

    • Navigating polyamory and open monogamy

    • Managing multi-partnered relationships and polycule dynamics

    • Addressing challenges in communication

    • Establishing and maintaining boundaries

    • Strengthening bonds within non-traditional relationships

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