The Erotic Life Podcast

The Erotic Life Podcast is a new audio series in production. It is set to launch mid-2026 and already has some great guests.

My goal is to create a unified space for the kink community. Whether someone engages through academic theory, the dynamics of a 24/7 household, the intensity of a scene, or by simple curiosity, I want to bring these perspectives together. It is a place where kinksters of all kind can can connect over the shared language of BDSM, regardless of how we speak it.

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Episodes: (Mid-2026 Release)

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Guests:

Book cover titled 'The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink: Jungian and Archetypal Perspectives on the Soul's Transgressive Necessities' by Douglas Thomas. The cover features a close-up of a classical marble sculpture of a woman’s face and hand, partially covering her mouth.

A close-up black and white portrait of a man with a beard and a shaved head, smiling slightly.

Book cover titled 'Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies' by Dr. Michael J. Bader. The cover features an open oyster shell with a pearl inside, set against a soft, light background.

A smiling man with glasses, a beard, and a bald head, sitting in a green armchair in a wooden room.

Douglas Thomas, PhD, LCSW, is a Jungian based psychotherapist. He wrote an incredible volume which investigates how the concept of soul is connected to BDSM and kink, exploring the world of alternative sexualities through the psychology of C. G. Jung and James Hillman.
Thomas is best known for his 2024 book, The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink: Jungian and Archetypal Perspectives on the Soul's Transgressive Necessities. In his work, he argues that BDSM practices are not inherently pathological, but rather profound expressions of the human psyche's search for meaning and transformation, which he calls "individuation".

Drawing on his twenty-five years as a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Bader demonstrates that rather than being programmed by biology or society, sexual fantasies and preferences are really psychological antidotes to unconscious dangers.
Drawing on his twenty-five years as a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Bader demonstrates that rather than being programmed by biology or society, sexual fantasies and preferences are really psychological antidotes to unconscious dangers. Armed with this novel theory, men and women will no longer need to feel ashamed about what arouses them or confused about what arouses others. Dr. Bader sensitively tells the stories of his patients and explains the meaning of their sexual fantasies.

A man smiling and flexing his bicep at a crowded outdoor event, wearing a black t-shirt with the text 'What Are You Into?'. Prevailing attire includes casual clothing and some other participants are dressed in costumes or sports gear.

A man with short brown hair, facial hair, and an earring, looking to the side in a casual setting.

Person dressed in black latex outfit with chains, sitting on a bench, holding a hat, against a brick wall background.

Close-up of a textured, grey stone sculpture of a human foot on a red background.

Building on his unashamed dedication to the scene, Brody (he/him/it) demonstrates that leather and Lycra are more than just materials, but a way of life to be embodied with total integrity. He utilises specific poses, angles, and meticulous attention to detail to allow his gear to speak through him, moving past any sense of shame to embrace his kink wholeheartedly. Brody serves as a living example of how commitment and posture can transform an aesthetic into a powerful personal identity.

NSNS is a graphic designer and digital artist who recontextualizes the chaotic world of online pornography into explicit, animated collages. Driven by a fascination with taboos, particularly the specific fetish of men keeping socks on during sex, he blends found internet footage, digital painting, and AI to create overstimulating visual narratives that explore the intersection of lust, masculinity, and voyeurism. Since beginning this collection in 2017, NSNS has achieved significant recognition, winning First Prize at the 2024 Tom of Finland Emerging Artist Competition and featuring in international showcases such as PrideART Berlin, the Porn Film Festival Vienna, and Bator Sex Magazine.

A middle-aged man with gray hair, glasses, and a beard smiling in a close-up portrait.

A middle-aged woman with blonde hair, glasses, and hoop earrings, sitting indoors near windows with a white background.

A man with short wavy hair, wearing dark sunglasses and a light-colored shirt, stands outdoors against a vibrant backdrop of purple bougainvillea flowers with green leaves.

Building on his unashamed dedication to the scene, Brody (he/him/it) demonstrates that leather and Lycra are more than just materials, but a way of life to be embodied with total integrity. He utilises specific poses, angles, and meticulous attention to detail to allow his gear to speak through him, moving past any sense of shame to embrace his kink wholeheartedly. Brody serves as a living example of how commitment and posture can transform an aesthetic into a powerful personal identity.

Dr. Liam Wignall is a Senior Lecturer in Psychology at the University of Brighton and a prominent researcher specializing in the intersection of digital technology, community participation, and non-heterosexual kink practices. The interview will be looking at his two papers: “Be Dog Have Fun”: Narratives of Discovery, Meaning, and Motivation among Members of the Pup Subculture and Autistic Traits of People Who Engage in Pup Play.

Sam is the Master in his current Total Power Exchange (TPE). I personally view TPE as one of the most emotionally demanding dynamics, requiring a distinct level of maturity which Sam certainly possesses. having explored BDSM from a young age, he has developed a refined sense of sensitivity and mastery. You can see this clearly in his long-term relationship with his slave; together, they have worked hard to build the trust necessary for such a deep exchange of power.

Di Hassall is an experienced psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, and the founder of Your Time To Talk. Specialising in Gender, Sexual, Erotic, and Relationship Diversity (GSERD), Di provides a courageous and inclusive space for individuals and couples to explore intimacy, desire, and identity. With a pluralistic approach that draws on her background in both integrative psychotherapy and psychosexual health, she works extensively with clients navigating non-monogamy, kink, and neurodiversity, helping them to unlearn societal shame and build authentic connections.
An Accredited Member of COSRT, Di brings a wealth of professional insight shaped by her previous career in human resources and communications. This unique blend of corporate and clinical experience allows her to address the complexities of modern relationships with a down-to-earth and practical perspective. Beyond the therapy room, she is a dedicated trainer and supervisor committed to fostering diversity awareness within the profession, always championing the idea that everyone deserves a fulfilling and self-defined intimate life.

Psychotherapist Joe Kort, PhD, LMSW, is the clinical director and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Royal Oak, Michigan. He is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops. Throughout his 40 years of private practice, he successfully has utilized varying therapy modalities to help hundreds of individuals and couples improve their lives and strengthen their relationships.
Dr. Kort specializes in marital problems and conflicts; mixed orientation marriages; male sexuality and sexual health concerns; “sex addiction,” out-of-control sexual behaviors; sexual identity issues; childhood sexual abuse; LGBTQIA Affirmative Therapy; and Imago Relationship Therapy.
He is trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing), a safe and effective treatment that can help patients who have suffered for years from anxiety, distressing memories, nightmares, insomnia, abuse or other traumatic events.
Dr. Kort obtained his undergraduate degree from Michigan State University in East Lansing, Michigan, with a dual major in psychology and social work. He earned master’s degrees in social work and psychology from Wayne State University in Detroit, Michigan, and a doctorate (PhD) in Clinical Sexology from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists.

Interested in becoming a guest?

There are two distinct ways to feature on the The Eroic Life Podcast.

1) I invite professionals and practitioners to join us and share their expertise, teachings, and valuable experience with our audience.

2) Alternatively, I offer a space for a personal deep dive, where guests can explore a specific fantasy in detail; together, we will discuss the fantasy alongside your upbringing, analysing potential links between your past experiences and your current desires.

If either of these interests you, please get in contact via email theeroticlifepodcast@gmail.com or sergiorebelotherapy@gmail.com